The Romance Challenge Day 4

 Consistency during the Romance Challenge is most important. Some of you will master each of these tips every day and others will have to space them out. Either way it's okay just as long as you are making an effort to stick with the challenge schedule permitting.

• Ask & Peak: What worked years ago may not work anymore so ask your partner what turns them on. Ask what they enjoy most about your imtimacy, and what new things they would like to try. You want to keep doing what they like and add a few new things to the mix. The element of surprise is always a good thing.

• Lube it Up: From KY to warming and flavored lubes you should add a little lube into the mix. Great for before, during, or after. A trip to an adult store can be fun, you can pick out things together share a few laughs. Shop online if your to shy to go to an adult store. But it's a fun trip I promise.
• Upside Down Show: Never do it in the same position two nights in a row, let your imagination flow. Don't be afraid to do some reasearch on the internet for ideas for the bedroom. Most people get tired of sex because of the routine, they know whats going to happen when-where-and how. If you think outside of the box it can be a delightful experience for you and your partner. Going into new rooms, or just getting out of the bed period is a great start.

The Romance Challenge Day 3

Here we are, already at day 3 of this challenge, I hope its been enlightening and entertaining so far. Before reading ahead make sure you have read Rekindle, The Romance Challenge Day1, Day2.

Don't be discouraged if things don't work out according to plan, but make modifications to suit your situation. I'm just giving you the foundational steps and ideas to reconnecting romantically. Creating special moments and memories is the goal. Let's give them something to think about, to talk about, and to daydream about.

Tips 7-9

• In the Nude: Sleep in the nude- that’s right no pjs or undies allowed in the bed tonight. The other day I told you to access your wardobe so now you know what sexy Items you can wear outside of the bed but tonight that won't be neccesary. 

Sidenote* Do me a favor No Sweats Allowed this month. Step your lounge game up & get creative. Work with whats already in your wardrobe. Leggings and a tank top or boy shorts ladies and for the men a wife beater or tshirt and some silky lounge pants or a fresh pair of boxer breifs will do.

• Keep it Old school: Write a love note to your mate & leave it on their pillow, slip it in their purse or jacket. A short and sweet note is perfect. Tell them about the last couple of nights, or just write a note of appreciation. Everyone likes to have there ego stroked every once in a while, if you don't pay them compliments at home someone outside of the house may get there attention by doing so.

• Stroke of Genius: Oil always does the trick; surprise your mate with foot, back, or full body massage or rub down. If they fall asleep thats okay, they will appreciate you doing this for them and they will definitely get a good nights rest. If it leads to something more great, just remember that this challenge is about romance not hurry up and get it.
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The Romance Challenge Day 2

Hopefully You have read Rekindling the love and The Romance Challenge. If not please take some time to do so otherwise this post will seem out of place.

Remember all of these tips are not meant to end in the bed, but they will definitely enhance your current relationship and love making experiences with your mate. Some of the tips will have to be done multiple times, but in the end you will start reconnecting more and will take each other for granted less. Enjoy!

Tips 4-6
• Out with the old: In with the new- undies included. Toss your worn undies and pj’s out it’s time to go by some sexier replacements. Men are visual creatures and women applaud effort.

• Reading Rainbow: Read an erotic book by yourself then on later that night read your favorite passage with your mate.

• Affection Overload: Don’t just save your long kisses, sexy hugs and touching for the bedroom, express these feelings throughout the day.

See You Tomorrow for tips 7-9.

The Romance Challenge -Are you Down?

Last week I touched on Rekindling the love between you and your mate this week I'm going to get a little more specific with tips and tricks you can use to enhance the romance in your life.

Studies have shown good sex can do wonders in your life so I’m issuing a challenge to whoever is reading this article to follow these simple and surefire suggestions to help get your sexy back in the bedroom and your life back on track. After being in a long term relationship or marriage you can easily let your routine or the busyness of life consume you. I’m here to tell you missionary is just not cutting it anymore. If you agree then keep reading; it gets better.

The key to spicing up your love life is to shake things up a bit. As you spend time with your mate focus on creating new situations and memories you can share. This is definitely not an overnight process, so I’m sharing a few tips over the next 2 weeks that will get you and your mate in the mood and will definitely spice it up inside and out of the bedroom. You can try one tip a day, or as many as you like, just don’t try them all at once.

Remember all of these tips are not meant to end in the bed, but they will definitely enhance your current relationship and love making experiences with your mate. Some of the tips will have to be done multiple times, but in the end you will start reconnecting more and will take each other for granted less. Enjoy!

Tips 1-3
• Get Dressed: Access your current lounge & night wear wardrobe mix it up a wear his/her favorite piece to bed tonight. The bed is a romantic & relaxing place no room for sweats or frumpy seperates.

• Bringing Sexy Back: Introduce a little exercise into your daily routine, your mate will find your new zest for working out irresistibly sexy and your workout will increase your flexibility and endurance. Once that body is toned up the possibilities are limitless.

• Clean It Up: Shave, trim, wax, do what you gotta do for a smooth move. Everyone has there own prefrence so all I'm saying is make sure your legs, underarms and private areas are manicured.

Check Back Tomorrow for tips 4-6. It get's jucier as we go on, but we have to get some preliminaries out of the way first. Don't be afraid to leave an comment :-)