Do You Need To Rekindle The Flame?

If you answer No To any of these Questions It's time to rekindle the flame

• Have you and your mate shared an intimate experience this week?
• Do you shut down the laptop or put down the phone when there home?
• Have you told them you love them today? Last Night? This Week?
• Have you told them you appreciate the joy the bring into your life?
• Have they told you the joy you bring into there’s?
• Have you sent them any sexy text messages lately?

 As you know Valentines Day is fast approaching and those who have defunct relationships, or sex lives will surely show it. There is so much pressure surrounding that day; and honestly I feel like 3 out of 7 days a week should be like Valentines day with your beau at least. Not so much with the gifts, but with the love, affection, attention to detail, going out of your way, romance, intimacy and all of that good stuff.

It's so easy to get caught up with everday life that we push creating special moments and memories to the back of our agenda. Then comes along special days like Valentines, Birthdays, Anniversaries; oh the pressure. I've found that if you make most of your time with your mate attentive and special, there is less pressure on the holidays because the love is frequently expressed and most likely you will get what you deserve. Whether it be a candlelight cooked dinner, a striptease, chocolates and champagne, a full body massage, a personal gift or just a full day of quality time.

Good memories are so much more valuable than things, the things will satisfy your wants but the good times will satisfy your needs. Take some time this weekend to do some reconnecting with your mate, like you used to. Super bowl is next weekend and Valentines is the weekend after that so honestly this weekend is the best time to show them how much you care for or love them in your own special way.

Stay Tuned for Tips & Tricks for reconnecting in the bedroom next week. It's a Sex challenge so I hope you will be up for it.