The Romance Challenge Day 5

For some of you these tips are just a brush up, an eye opener to others and a savior to some who are looking for a way to rejuvenate a stale relationship. For those who may be reading along but not learning anything new the fact of the matter is, we don't use or do what we did in the beginning of the relationship after some time have passed so this is just a reminder.


Tips 13-15

Do Your Homework: Visit the book store and take a look at the Karma Sutra together and discuss positions you can try when you get home. The internet is another great and free resource where you can explore many new areas and interesting ideas. It's more exciting when you look at together can you can discuss your thoughts together.

Wine & Dine: Prepare an impromptu candlelight dinner at home for your mate on a weeknight with some wine or champagne to toast to a good night. People tend to push everything off to the weekend and then try to cram so much in all at once. Not only is this a bad idea, but you or they will be so tired from regular weekend errands you won't have the energy to pull this off successfully.

Let The Music Play: Instead of going to bed watching TV, let music be your soundtrack. Make a special Ipod mix for the bedroom, or your favorite romantic CD to get the mood right. I have several compilation CD's that I play on my laptop since I don’t own an Ipod. If you choose an individual CD I suggest something like Jazz, Kem, or Sade, because most music CDs are a mixture of up-tempo and smooth music. The wrong song or beat can throw the entire mood off.

So it's been 5 days of juicy tips, I'm wondering how things are working out for you? Leave and anonymous comment if you will please and just let me know your thoughts, reaction and suggestions to my Romance Challenge.

Be sure to read days 1-5 If this is your first time reading.