The Romance Challenge Day 10

Today is the last day of The Romance Challenge Tips but not the last day of the challenge for you at home. I consolidated 28 tips into 10 days of post, now you still have the rest of the month to enhance your relationship with your mate. Those of you who are participating I hope that your relationship is in a better place before you started the challenge and I wish you continued success in your relationships.

Tips 25-28

• Public Indecency: Your backyard, deck or patio is outdoors but it’s your property. Get a little risky and see what you and mother-nature can come up with.

• On Demand: Expand your horizons and order a flick, yea that’s right a porno I’m not a fan personally, but for many people this is a way to learn some new tricks.

• Mother of Pearl: Pearls can do amazing things, get some and let your imagination run wild.

• Show Your Love: Sometimes we allow love to be an action word and while that works for some people others need to hear it. Express your love often as possible, let your mate know that you love them through your physical actions just as much as your verbal ones.

As of today you would have recieved 28 tips from me on how to increase the romance and intimacy in your relationship. I’ve laid the foundation now the rest is up to you. Don’t be afraid to mix things up, it will all pay off in the end. Happy Valentines Day!

The Romance Challenge Day 9

Tips 22-24
• Let’s Go Shopping: Go lingerie/lounge shopping together and pick out an outfit for each other. It's not about what you like for yourself it's about what they want to see you in, and vice-versa. Go with the flow get out of your comfort zone, whats more risky than being naked? 

• Blind Play: Use a soft or silk scarf to blindfold your mate while you tickle there fancy, if they will let you tie up there hands to. The sense are extra stimulated when the sense of sight and touch is removed at the same time.

• Oh My Baby Oil: Instead of turning on the water in the bath tonight or after the bath water is out, whip out the baby oil, pour and rub it all over your bodies while in the tub. I'll leave what happens after that up to you.  Be careful when getting out of the tub, but especially careful the morning after. Wash the bathtub out if you can remember before the next use.(non slip bath mat recommended)

Read More from The Romance Challenge Here. Friday is the last days of tips, I hope you have enjoyed the series as much as I have enjoyed sharing with you.

The Romance Challenge Day 8

Tips 19-21

• For-Play: Bring out the games and turn game night into the main night. Weather its strip poker, roll the dice, hide & go seek or put a new spin on your favorites, this might be a game you won’t mind loosing.
• Routine No More: Switch up your schedule and surprise your mate with a mid day rendezvous’ or offer yourself as soon as they walk through the door, nightime nookie is a dessert and not the main course anymore.

• Lights Costume Action: Using items around the house, seduce your mate through role playing. Costumes, wigs, aprons anything you can think of to get you in character for the role of a lifetime. Most adult novelty store sell costumes or you can always try party city for cheap accessories you can dress up with.

Read More from The Romance Challenge Here

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The Romance Challenge Day 7

                                

I sure wish I had a romantic bedroom like this one, some of you do, but most of you probally dont. My bedroom is simple and comfy but there are so many other things I would like to do to my bedroom to set the mood right. Right now it's a room for rest, but in fact it should be a room of zest. Without being to complicated a nice collaboration of accessories, pictures and lighting of objects could give the impression of an romantic atmosphere quickly. Until I get that done, I've used other rooms to get creative.

Tips 19-21
• Rooms Service: the bedroom & couch are off limits tonight, take it to another room or piece of furniture in the house. Enjoy your surroundings and new positions you can try in the various rooms on various objects.
• Tonight’s the Night: Oh you don’t do that, well tonight try something that you’ve never done before.
• Tricks up your sleeve: Visit an adult novelty store and pick up a new toy the two of you can enjoy. If your afraid to shop in public browse online together.

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The Romance Challenge Week 2 - Day 6

If you’re just joining us please take a look at The Romance Challenge days 1-5 first before reading on. We are now in our 2nd week and this week is key because in 6 days Valentines will be upon us, the ultimate romantic holiday. Some of us will have a good one and others will not, it's simply up to you. This year instead of focusing on a gift, or a dinner reservation, I think the day would be much more successful if it was spent doing something you both could enjoy and that would be memorable and cost effective.

Here are a Few His & Hers Ideas
Candlelight dinner prepared together at home $35 and under.
Visit the JeJu Sauna in Duluth GA for $25 per person and you can spend the night (included in your price).
His & Hers Mani & Pedi for $75 and under at various nail salons and spas across the US.
His & Hers massage for $165 and under at various spas across the US.
Personal chef or cooking class, at a nearby dinner studio.
Wine tasting and your nearest winery or vineyard. You could make it a day trip.
Private or public ballroom or salsa dance lesson at a nearby dance studio.

Tips 16-18
• Cyber Sextn: Catchem off guard and surprise your mate and erotic text message or email during the day. If you don't do this often this will definitely put a smile on there face.

• Turn off the lights: Tonight the bathroom is the perfect place for a perfect ending. Take a hot bubble bath together, but set the scene first. Turn of the lights use some scented candles instead, pop in some soft music to play in the background and the two of you get in and just relax. Fill the water as high as your can so that both of your bodies are covered and close the shower curtain after you are inside to keep the steam in and the water warmer longer. garden tubs, jaccuzzi tubs and

• Say It Loud: Sometimesyou just don't know what to say and of course you don't want to sound carazy but playtime is one of those time where what your saying doesnt matter just as long as your saying something. Giving out orders will definitely make the cut, just as well as reciting some vowels just let your voice be heard like no other. Let your mate know your enjoying the ride they will appreciate you for this one.

The Romance Challenge Day 4

 Consistency during the Romance Challenge is most important. Some of you will master each of these tips every day and others will have to space them out. Either way it's okay just as long as you are making an effort to stick with the challenge schedule permitting.

• Ask & Peak: What worked years ago may not work anymore so ask your partner what turns them on. Ask what they enjoy most about your imtimacy, and what new things they would like to try. You want to keep doing what they like and add a few new things to the mix. The element of surprise is always a good thing.

• Lube it Up: From KY to warming and flavored lubes you should add a little lube into the mix. Great for before, during, or after. A trip to an adult store can be fun, you can pick out things together share a few laughs. Shop online if your to shy to go to an adult store. But it's a fun trip I promise.
• Upside Down Show: Never do it in the same position two nights in a row, let your imagination flow. Don't be afraid to do some reasearch on the internet for ideas for the bedroom. Most people get tired of sex because of the routine, they know whats going to happen when-where-and how. If you think outside of the box it can be a delightful experience for you and your partner. Going into new rooms, or just getting out of the bed period is a great start.

The Romance Challenge Day 3

Here we are, already at day 3 of this challenge, I hope its been enlightening and entertaining so far. Before reading ahead make sure you have read Rekindle, The Romance Challenge Day1, Day2.

Don't be discouraged if things don't work out according to plan, but make modifications to suit your situation. I'm just giving you the foundational steps and ideas to reconnecting romantically. Creating special moments and memories is the goal. Let's give them something to think about, to talk about, and to daydream about.

Tips 7-9

• In the Nude: Sleep in the nude- that’s right no pjs or undies allowed in the bed tonight. The other day I told you to access your wardobe so now you know what sexy Items you can wear outside of the bed but tonight that won't be neccesary. 

Sidenote* Do me a favor No Sweats Allowed this month. Step your lounge game up & get creative. Work with whats already in your wardrobe. Leggings and a tank top or boy shorts ladies and for the men a wife beater or tshirt and some silky lounge pants or a fresh pair of boxer breifs will do.

• Keep it Old school: Write a love note to your mate & leave it on their pillow, slip it in their purse or jacket. A short and sweet note is perfect. Tell them about the last couple of nights, or just write a note of appreciation. Everyone likes to have there ego stroked every once in a while, if you don't pay them compliments at home someone outside of the house may get there attention by doing so.

• Stroke of Genius: Oil always does the trick; surprise your mate with foot, back, or full body massage or rub down. If they fall asleep thats okay, they will appreciate you doing this for them and they will definitely get a good nights rest. If it leads to something more great, just remember that this challenge is about romance not hurry up and get it.
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The Romance Challenge Day 2

Hopefully You have read Rekindling the love and The Romance Challenge. If not please take some time to do so otherwise this post will seem out of place.

Remember all of these tips are not meant to end in the bed, but they will definitely enhance your current relationship and love making experiences with your mate. Some of the tips will have to be done multiple times, but in the end you will start reconnecting more and will take each other for granted less. Enjoy!

Tips 4-6
• Out with the old: In with the new- undies included. Toss your worn undies and pj’s out it’s time to go by some sexier replacements. Men are visual creatures and women applaud effort.

• Reading Rainbow: Read an erotic book by yourself then on later that night read your favorite passage with your mate.

• Affection Overload: Don’t just save your long kisses, sexy hugs and touching for the bedroom, express these feelings throughout the day.

See You Tomorrow for tips 7-9.

The Romance Challenge -Are you Down?

Last week I touched on Rekindling the love between you and your mate this week I'm going to get a little more specific with tips and tricks you can use to enhance the romance in your life.

Studies have shown good sex can do wonders in your life so I’m issuing a challenge to whoever is reading this article to follow these simple and surefire suggestions to help get your sexy back in the bedroom and your life back on track. After being in a long term relationship or marriage you can easily let your routine or the busyness of life consume you. I’m here to tell you missionary is just not cutting it anymore. If you agree then keep reading; it gets better.

The key to spicing up your love life is to shake things up a bit. As you spend time with your mate focus on creating new situations and memories you can share. This is definitely not an overnight process, so I’m sharing a few tips over the next 2 weeks that will get you and your mate in the mood and will definitely spice it up inside and out of the bedroom. You can try one tip a day, or as many as you like, just don’t try them all at once.

Remember all of these tips are not meant to end in the bed, but they will definitely enhance your current relationship and love making experiences with your mate. Some of the tips will have to be done multiple times, but in the end you will start reconnecting more and will take each other for granted less. Enjoy!

Tips 1-3
• Get Dressed: Access your current lounge & night wear wardrobe mix it up a wear his/her favorite piece to bed tonight. The bed is a romantic & relaxing place no room for sweats or frumpy seperates.

• Bringing Sexy Back: Introduce a little exercise into your daily routine, your mate will find your new zest for working out irresistibly sexy and your workout will increase your flexibility and endurance. Once that body is toned up the possibilities are limitless.

• Clean It Up: Shave, trim, wax, do what you gotta do for a smooth move. Everyone has there own prefrence so all I'm saying is make sure your legs, underarms and private areas are manicured.

Check Back Tomorrow for tips 4-6. It get's jucier as we go on, but we have to get some preliminaries out of the way first. Don't be afraid to leave an comment :-)